Do not judge others and you won’t be judged.
One of the most toxic traits that ruins any possibility of a relationship – is judgement and criticism.
Everything we judge – something that irritates, triggers or annoy us in other humans- is our own shadow; something within ourselves, that we shut off and deny.
Its’s gift we run away from and shamed ourselves for that.
Every shadow, every demon has a unique gift.
Without that gift- our life won’t be fulfilled.
When we judge other humans- we do it without really seeing his/her unique path;
without understanding them, hearing their story; seeing them in the wholeness of their unique being… we simply lack the intelligence and wisdom to receive them and their wisdom- just the way they are.
We are always changing, every minute, every hour, every day…
To have a still ‘picture’ of another human in our mind- that actually, already lack the depth, lack the understanding, lack the insight- and judging another being by that silly! 🙃 is heartless and shallow- (that’s for sure, were taking when we have not understood another human-
Otherwise,
We won’t do that!)
Well
Let’s say everyone of us- is the whole Universe in forever motion of growth and self developing, we are changing, our bodies are changing, our feelings and emotions, our ideas and dreams – always changing.
You can not judge the ocean 🌊 by the shot the silly picture you took of it- even 10 min ago- not a day ago, nor a month ago-
The ocean is always changing, as much as each of us does…
Only in this present particular moment we could see, hear, feel, understand one another.
If there is something you see now- that’s it, enjoy it- it all will change tomorrow; as nothing really lasts…
If we want something to change; change it right here right now- or let it go forever. Very often things change by itself, when they are ready for the change- without any push- and no criticism is needed ever.
When you criticize another human- you criticize yourself and your own inability to accept and love yourself.
We are one.
One universe in a single motion.
Dear lovers: enjoy each other right now in this present moment- as this moment will be gone forever…
